Once I had my one of my PC's marry Fruella, then I got tired of listening to her. I let her get killed in combat, then went back to her father's house and raised her. She was alive but no longer in the party. No more "don't tell me what to do."
I have a modified protos file and a custom portrait(Royo04) for Fruella and others. I never use the sound. I like to see her critical hit Lareth and smash his arrogant face. With a belt of giant strength and the cleaver crafted to +3Flaming she's awesome. I like Fruella.