Relationship Rant Thread

Well. I didn't know that.

 

LOL :aaaa:


Btw, what's a nottie? I missed that

 

Someone who thinks they're unattractive.

They're far better in relationships than women who think they're beautiful.

EDIT: Is anyone getting confused, yet? :scratchhe

 

That's too bad. Really.

If it starts interfering with your sleep, try building a mental castle.

Hopefully, it will be for both. But when you feel like it is the 'love of your life' I don't think you really have a choice. You're already a goner. But if the other person doesn't also feel it, then you're better off getting out and getting on with the agony part until you can start living again.

 

Just texted C to get kissed for me.

A's asleep in the other room. Playing ToEE wouldn't wake her up. But it might wake the squawky girls, which would be great, but we'd all get in trouble. Self-control is a BITCH. :bored:

Got to stick past 12, then I can sneak home.

 

Whew, the smart girl again, thanks god.
It pretty much explains it perfectly. :yes:

 

Greatness is like winning. The definition varies from person to person. But then so is happiness. You can simply be happy no matter what. Simply strive for what's important to you. Let someone else decide that you are great. I've been on TV, radio and on the front page of the paper, not to mention studies, magazines and documentaries. But that because I'm unusual, not because I'm great. Great is when we manage to be there for someone who needs help.

On the other thing...are you saying you've never been struck by the appearance of someone who is so arresting you can't look away? Then she looks at you and smiles, because she knows she owns your ass... :dizzy:

Lucky Bastard!

 

Once, in the supermarket, I came around from one aisle into another, pushing my grocery cart, my mind on what I was going to get for the week's groceries. I looked up. There was a guy standing there, and he literally took my breath away. I nearly fainted. I'm not kidding. For a second, my grocery cart was the only thing holding me up. I walked past him, pushing my cart, really in a kind of panic, and around into the next aisle. Then I decided to go back. He was gone.

I have always regretted that I kept on going past that man that day. I wish I had stopped, talked to him, done something.

 

That is EXACTLY what we get, too. The poor people we pull out of paralyzing fear or a beating, or worse, are usually too scared or too much in shock to give us much thanks, or even remember us. Our new guys are often surprised by that.

Honestly, most of us don't give it much thought, either. Occasionally, a cop or someone else in the know will stop and give us some love, often with some criticism. But its not the recognition you get that makes you great, it's what you've done.

And I said YOU, Gaear. If it's so useless and stupid, why don't you stop? :gotmyatte

 

Next time, faint. What do you think it's for?

If you can't manage that, look at him until he looks at you, then smile. If he doesn't take the cue, act like you know him..."Hi! I haven't seen you in a long time..." Keep it going, ask him if he'd like to go get coffee.

If he doesn't look at you, ask him to get something his cart is blocking. Or run into his cart with yours. Or ask about something in his basket. Be a pest. You're a women. You guys are in charge. Take what you want. If there's nothing, there's nothing to mess up.

If you're not sure of yourself, practice. Make eye contact and smile at some likely guy. If you know them and already like them, do it everytime you see them. They'll never know what hit them. Plus, all the smiling will just naturally miake you feel better.

Gaear's right, Mr. Wonderful probably wouldn't have been so wonderful. Since you were lovestruck, you would have let bad things go for too long. But it IS fun to imagine.