Relationship Rant Thread

I'm cool. I knew the job was dangerous when I took it.

 

GA82, how goes it with your women?

 

Okay, okay! My "women":

A: No further repercussions from VD. Her job is high-stress now, so she is having a hard time finding time and energy to be with me.

C: Has a new girlfriend, H. C, H and I took a long road trip to Magnolia to help H's parents move furniture. H wore her VERY tight, see through (black bra) T-shirt. C cut me a break and wore clothes this time.

Little A: The mom of M&M, in the car picture. Get to see the girl's once or twice a month.

X: Going to meet with her at L's baby doctor after 3 month T get's his shots. Have food with bunch.

Don't think I've mentioned anyone else.

 

Update:

Haven't seen A for a week. C has broken up with H(?). An old friend made a pass at me Monday.

Gonna have dinner with C in an hour.

Start the chiding...

 

An earlier post might be appropriate here, no?

 

All of them?

 

You're smart. You're experienced. You know what you're doing.

Still, be careful, man.

This seems like an emotional minefield.

 

With old people, everyday is an emotional minefield. It's called baggage.

Haven't seen A in a while. Talk to her 2-3 times a week. (?)

C is out of town. Really hit hard by her breakup with H.

Ran around Tuesday with little A and her daughters M & M (Squawky and Squeeky). Little A seems to be doing fine this last year.

Ran around yesterday with L, her son T and her sister, K.
* T's selfish father was arrested for possession Friday, L is looking for a job
* K's power-tripping boyfriend broke up with her Thursday
* L and T's father is an alcoholic with hepatitus C AND he's crazy
* Their mom ran off when they were babies, but a third sister, S, is living with her now
So...I get another baby fix and L and T get a pleasant, boring, no-drama day. T is an EASY baby. L's doing a good job with him.

I hope you guys know how good a boring life is.

 

Young people have baggage, too.

My life isn't generally boring...

Your life sounds very busy, GA82.

 

I must let no sparrow fall.

 

Gotta agree with Scry's response. You oldies don't hold the monopoly on baggage! oke:

Yeah, so boring, that I just can't wait to talk to my ex again about summer plans for N! :roll:

She's off for the entire summer, has no travel or work plans, but still puts up resistance when I suggest that it would be easier for ALL of us, if N was in daycare near our house, instead of out by the her's. Both J and I work, so dropping off/picking up N out by the ex's would require major changes to our own work schedules. Doable, but it just shouldn't ahve to be this way. It always comes down to HER convenience and I'm getting tired of it, especially now.

 

You snotty-nose punks ain't been payin' attention. You guys got it easy. Why let me tell you about the time I... Hey, I'm talking to you... Zzzzz... :zzz:

 

Sigh. Can't disagree. She was probably just using me for sex. Or comic relief.

You'd think that dating a math instructor would be exciting enough. :shrug:

One of the best attitude changes I ever made was to be grateful for the time we spent together, rather than be resentful that it was over.